Skip to main content

3 Signs You're Sabotaging Your Music Career

Let me ask you a Question, are you a victim or a professional musician?  If you are reading this post, you are or working on becoming a professional musician.  Let's act like the professionals that we are and stop sabotaging our own careers.  Here are three signs that you are sabotaging your success.  

1. USING YOUR LACK OF MONEY AS A SELLING POINT. 

This is one of the most common mistakes musicians make when contacting a music professional. You want the aid of an expert, but you begin your sentence with a variation of all of your money issues. The most common begins with “I am a struggling artist without money.”  If you are working with a music industry professional, chances are that person has also chosen the love of music over an amazing financial return. You should not be placing the burden of your financial responsibility on the person or business you want to help you. The only signal this sends is that you’re not yet ready.

Flip It: Instead of leading with your money issues, make a list of how you could bring in income and start with that as your selling point. 

2. YOU FOCUS YOUR ENERGY ON WHAT YOU CAN'T DO.

Now you are truly in a state of complete victimhood. If you keep repeating all the ways you can’t do something, guess what, you won’t. The very person you are asking for help, has overcome obstacle and challenges that seem impossible, but they took it on with resilience and grit. Ask yourself, "how can I beat this?" How can I get to the other side? Those Questions have always led to the greatest successes.

Flip It: Look at your number one challenge right now. Make a list of 20 ways you can overcome it and then start with the one that most excites you.

3. YOU TRY TO START FROM THE TOP AND IGNORE THE FOUNDATION BUILT. 

You look at musicians who are already famous and think all you need to do is mimic their success Radiohead style. This may work if you started exactly where they started and built from there. But, you don't start exactly where they started, you try to do exactly what a musician is doing at the height of their success. It is successful for these musicians because in some cases they’ve spent 20 years building up to this level. Very few musicians make it on the first release. Twenty years of hard work, you want to accomplish in few months or few years.  It’s fantastic to look at success stories and use that as a model, but don’t forget to look at where it all began and see if that model matches your philosophy.

Flip It: Stop comparing yourself. Identify YOUR greatest strengths and then determine how to develop them to help take you to the next level.

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

President George Weah's One Day National Forum Successfully Attended by 26 Political Parties

On Thursday, August 8, 2018, President George Weah had a sit down with 26 political parties of Liberia.  The meeting aimed at advancing ideals that promote the spirit of national unity and political tolerance between opposition political parties and the government.  ANC, LP and UP attended the meeting as a team. According to Deputy Minister Eugene L. Fahngon, Deputy Minister for Press and Public Affairs at Ministry of Information, Cultural Affairs & Tourism, all 26 political parties attended and participated from start to finish.  Even though, social media was buzzing about AB Dillion walking out of the meeting, he walked out as an individual and not a political party, "the invitation was extended to political parties and not to individuals," Minister Fahngon stated in his live video.  Each political party gave ideals and recommendations, which made the meeting a great success.  According to  Deputy Minister Fahngon, "there will be future engagements as such.&quo

What President Trump and Kim Jong Un Ate

The historic summit between President Donald Trump and North Korean leader Kim Jong Un continued midday Tuesday, as the leaders satisfied their appetites while holding negotiations with a contingent of advisers over a working lunch. The lunch, which followed a 45-minute one-on-one meeting between the leaders earlier in the morning and bilateral discussion with senior aides, was held at the Capella Hotel on Singapore’s Sentosa Island. It was far from an intimate affair, with each leader accompanied by a bevy of senior staff, according to the White House. Joining Trump were Secretary of State Mike Pompeo, Chief of Staff John Kelly, National Security Advisor John Bolton, U.S. Ambassador to the Philippines Sung Kim, press secretary Sarah Huckabee Sanders, and Deputy Assistant to the President for Asian Affairs Matthew Pottinger. Kim was accompanied by Kim Yong Chol , the former spy chief and one of North Korea’s chief negotiators, as well as Foreign Minister Ri Yong Ho, former

Snapchat Slammed for Domestic Violence Meme Featuring Rihanna and Chris Brown

If Kylie Jenner ‘s stock-plummeting Snapchat rant didn’t make you delete the app, maybe this will. Over the weekend, Snapchat found itself in hot water after a now-deleted domestic violence meme featuring Rihanna and Chris Brown went viral. The meme, which was an advertisement for the app “Would You Rather,” asked users whether they would prefer to “slap Rihanna” or “punch Chris Brown.” Almost immediately, screenshots of the ad appeared on Twitter, with many criticizing Snapchat for making light of domestic violence. Is it just me, or is this ad that popped up on my Snapchat extremely tone deaf? Like what were they thinking with this? pic.twitter.com/7kP9RHcgNG — Royce Mann (@TheRoyceMann) March 12, 2018 Many considered the ad a mockery of Rihanna’s experience with domestic violence. In 2009, Brown was arrested and charged for physically assaulting his then-girlfriend Rihanna hours before she was to perform at the Grammy awards. Since the incident, Rihanna has spo